{"id":3319,"date":"2016-09-05T02:59:35","date_gmt":"2016-09-04T23:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=3319"},"modified":"2016-09-05T02:59:35","modified_gmt":"2016-09-04T23:59:35","slug":"ergenlik-doneminde-anne-babalar-gence-nasil-yaklasmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/3319\/ergenlik-doneminde-anne-babalar-gence-nasil-yaklasmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Ergenlik D\u00f6neminde Anne-Babalar Gence Nas\u0131l Yakla\u015fmal\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi\u00e7 ku\u015fku yok ki her anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve iyi bir gelecek sahibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 arzu eder.\u00a0Bunun i\u00e7in unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki ailenin e\u011fitim s\u00fcreci i\u00e7erisinde olmas\u0131 \u00f6\u011frencinin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6neme sahiptir.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgili veliler, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun geli\u015fim s\u00fcrecini bilmek; onunla ileti\u015fimimizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirecek ve onun sorunlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 daha duyarl\u0131 hale gelmemizi sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Lisede okuyan bir \u00f6\u011frenci velisi olmak \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun en \u00f6nemli geli\u015fim s\u00fcreci olan <strong>ergenlik d\u00f6nemi<\/strong>ni bilmeli ve bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te anne babaya d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6revlerle ilgili bilgi sahibi olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ergenlik D\u00f6nemi Nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ergenlik, yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe ilk ad\u0131m evresi olarak kabul ediliyor. Bir ba\u015fka deyi\u015fle \u00e7ocukluktan yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe ge\u00e7i\u015f evresi. 12-20 ya\u015f aras\u0131 olarak kabul edilen bu d\u00f6nem, k\u0131zlarda 8\u201313, erkeklerde 10\u201315 ya\u015flar\u0131nda ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bireyin Hem Kendisi \u0130le Hem de \u00c7evresi \u0130le \u00c7at\u0131\u015fma Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Bir D\u00f6nemdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Ergenlik D\u00f6nemi <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ergenlik: \u00c7ocukluktan eri\u015fkinli\u011fe ge\u00e7i\u015f d\u00f6nemi olan,<\/li>\n<li>Genelde 10-21 ya\u015f aras\u0131n\u0131 kapsayan,<\/li>\n<li>H\u0131zl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcme ve geli\u015fmenin g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc,<\/li>\n<li>Fiziksel, sosyal, zihinsel ve psikolojik de\u011fi\u015fimlerin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 evredir.<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><strong>Ergenlik D\u00f6nemi \u00d6zellikleri Nelerdir?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bu d\u00f6nem baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda erken baz\u0131lar\u0131nda ise ge\u00e7 ba\u015flayabilir veya bitebilir.<\/li>\n<li>Beden yap\u0131lar\u0131 birbirlerine g\u00f6re farkl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcme g\u00f6sterir.<\/li>\n<li>Ergenlik d\u00f6nemindeki h\u0131zl\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fimlere ayak uydurmada \u00e7ocuklar birbirlerine g\u00f6re farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6sterebilirler.<\/li>\n<li>Duygu, D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, Davran\u0131\u015f ve \u0130li\u015fkilerinde De\u011fi\u015fkendir.<\/li>\n<li>Anne, Baba Ve \u00d6\u011fretmen Gibi Otoritelere Kar\u015f\u0131 \u00c7\u0131karlar Ancak \u00d6rnek Modele \u0130htiya\u00e7 Duyarlar.<\/li>\n<li>Otoriteye Kar\u015f\u0131 Gelmesi Sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k De\u011fil, Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u0130spat Etme \u00c7abas\u0131d\u0131r. (Bir Birey Olma \u00c7abas\u0131)<\/li>\n<li>Arkada\u015flar\u0131 Onun \u0130\u00e7in \u00d6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Ayn\u0131 Sorunlarla Kar\u015f\u0131 Kar\u015f\u0131yad\u0131rlar.<\/li>\n<li>Da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kt\u0131r, Unutkand\u0131r,<\/li>\n<li>Beklenenden Fazla Tepki G\u00f6sterirler, \u00c7ok Hassas ve K\u0131r\u0131lgand\u0131rlar<\/li>\n<li>D\u00fcnya G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri Farkl\u0131d\u0131r ve \u00c7abuk De\u011fi\u015fir,<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Ergenlik D\u00f6neminde Anne-Babalara D\u00fc\u015fen G\u00f6revler Nelerdir?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0Kimseyle K\u0131yaslamama<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Nasihat\u00e7i Olmama<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0H\u00fckmetmek Yerine Payla\u015fma (Zaman ay\u0131rma)<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Sorgulamama (Gencin Mant\u0131\u011f\u0131na Uygun Konu\u015fmak)<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0Yeti\u015fkin Yerine Koyma \u00b7\u00a0Onuruna Sayg\u0131\u00a0Duyma, Bireyselli\u011fini Kabul Etme<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0Bast\u0131rma Veya Engelleme Yerine Payla\u015fma Ve Dayan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 Se\u00e7me<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0Sevgiyi Hep S\u0131cak Tutma (Ko\u015fulsuz Sevgimizi Belirtme)<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7\u00a0Kendi Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131yla Ba\u011fda\u015ft\u0131rmama (Benim Zaman\u0131nda Dememe)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/online-ogrenci-danismanligi-ile-profesyonel-ogrenci-takibi\/2868.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2870 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/online-ogrenci-danismani-online-egitim-danismani-online-ogrenci-kocu-okanbal.jpg?resize=620%2C330\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/online-ogrenci-danismani-online-egitim-danismani-online-ogrenci-kocu-okanbal.jpg?w=620 620w, http:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/online-ogrenci-danismani-online-egitim-danismani-online-ogrenci-kocu-okanbal.jpg?resize=300%2C160 300w\" alt=\"online-ogrenci-danismani-online-egitim-danismani-online-ogrenci-kocu-okanbal\" width=\"620\" height=\"330\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Okan Bal<br \/>\nUzman Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman<br \/>\nE\u011fitim ve \u00d6\u011frenci Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131<\/p>\n<p>Profesyonel E\u011fitim ve \u00d6\u011frenci Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 Deste\u011fi Almak \u0130\u00e7in Randevu Al\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/randevu-al\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2455\" src=\"http:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.okanbal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep.png?resize=298%2C95\" alt=\"psikolojik-danisma-ogrenci-danismanligi-randevual1-gaziantep\" width=\"298\" height=\"95\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi\u00e7 ku\u015fku yok ki her anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve iyi bir gelecek sahibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 arzu eder.\u00a0Bunun i\u00e7in unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3320,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,214,28,119,91],"tags":[275,276,230,223,228,117],"class_list":["post-3319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-egitim-ogrenci-danismanligi","category-ergenlik-donemi","category-pdr-rehberlik-resmiyet","category-psikoloji","category-psikolojik-danisma","tag-ergenlik-donemi-nedir","tag-ergenlik-donemi-ozellikleri-nelerdir","tag-gaziantep-egitim-danismani","tag-gaziantep-ogrenci-danismani","tag-online-ogrenci-danismani","tag-online-terapi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3319\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3320"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}