Anne baban\u0131n, gencin e\u011fitim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 konusunda yapabilecekleri ,\u201ckatk\u0131\u201d ve \u201cyard\u0131mla\u201d s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Temel kural yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 olan\u0131n yard\u0131m istemesidir.<\/p>\n
Bu nedenle ona yapmak istedi\u011finiz yard\u0131mlarda onunla i\u015fbirli\u011fi i\u00e7inde olman\u0131z ve<\/p>\n
Onun, s\u00f6yledikleriniz ve yapmak istedikleriniz konusunda ikna olmas\u0131 ve inanmas\u0131 esast\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak iken, \u015fimdi ise ba\u015far\u0131 etkili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak olarak tan\u0131mlanmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Etkili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, zaman\u0131, belirlenmi\u015f \u00f6ncelikler do\u011frultusunda programl\u0131 olarak kullanmakt\u0131r. Etkili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in dinlenmeye, e\u011flenmeye, dostlarla vakit ge\u00e7irmeye de gereksinim vard\u0131r. E\u011fitim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 ders ba\u015f\u0131nda ne kadar zaman ge\u00e7irildi\u011fine de\u011fil, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan konudan \u00f6\u011frencide geriye ne kald\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma ile ilgili \u00f6nemli ilkeler vard\u0131r. Bunlar:<\/p>\n
1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6\u011frenci problem \u00e7\u00f6zerken \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ula\u015f\u0131ncaya kadar ara vermemesi,<\/p>\n
(en fazla 40 dakika)<\/p>\n
2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmadan sonra 10 dakika tekrar, 10 dakika mola vermesi.<\/p>\n
3)\u00a0 Gece yatmadan \u00f6\u011frendiklerini 10 dakika tekrar etmesi<\/p>\n
4)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Notlar\u0131n tekrar yaz\u0131lmas\u0131 veya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra notlar\u0131n tekrar\u0131 ve h\u0131zla g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irilmesi.<\/p>\n
5)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma zaman\u0131n\u0131n, \u00e7izelgeli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma program\u0131na g\u00f6re planlanmas\u0131.<\/p>\n
6)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7ocu\u011funuza uygun \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ortam\u0131 haz\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in 18\u201320 derece oda \u0131s\u0131s\u0131nda derli toplu bir oda ya da k\u00f6\u015fe, sessiz ve \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeterli d\u00fczeyde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma masas\u0131 ve malzemelerin d\u00fczenli bir \u015fekilde masan\u0131n \u00fczerinde durmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Yanl\u0131\u015f \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131:<\/p>\n
1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 TV izleyerek ya da m\u00fczik dinleyerek \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak,<\/p>\n
2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yatarak, uzanarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak,<\/p>\n
3)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken at\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak,<\/p>\n
4)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Posterle dolu bir oda,<\/p>\n
5)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 s\u00fcrekli erteleme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131,<\/p>\n
6)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6nemsiz i\u015flere verimsiz saatleri harcamak,<\/p>\n
7)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Programs\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak olarak say\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in d\u00fczenli aile hayat\u0131, problemleri kabullenmek, sosyallik konusunda model olmak, ergeni iyi tan\u0131mak, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 desteklemek gerekir.<\/p>\n
Olgun insanlar yeti\u015ftirebilmek i\u00e7in ebeveynlerin de olgun olmas\u0131, olumlu benlik duygusuna sahip olmas\u0131, yani yap\u0131p yapmayacaklar\u0131n\u0131n, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gereklidir.<\/p>\n
Olgun biri di\u011ferleriyle hem yak\u0131n hem de genel ili\u015fkilerde s\u0131cak ba\u011flar kurma yetene\u011fine sahiptir. D\u0131\u015f ger\u00e7eklerle ba\u011flant\u0131 i\u00e7inde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, hareket eder yani dura\u011fan de\u011fildir, de\u011fi\u015fikliklere uyum g\u00f6sterir ve kendini yeniler. De\u011fi\u015ftiremeyece\u011fi durumu kabullenir ve soruna o noktadan yeni bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm arar.<\/p>\n
Unutmay\u0131n, \u201cHo\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaya zorlamak de\u011fil, kendi istedi\u011fi gibi mutlu olmas\u0131na imk\u00e2n verme b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Anne baban\u0131n, gencin e\u011fitim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 konusunda yapabilecekleri ,\u201ckatk\u0131\u201d ve \u201cyard\u0131mla\u201d s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Temel kural yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 olan\u0131n yard\u0131m istemesidir. Bu nedenle...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4668,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,28,119,91],"tags":[429,379,247,307,116,117,408,430],"class_list":["post-4667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-egitim-ogrenci-danismanligi","category-pdr-rehberlik-resmiyet","category-psikoloji","category-psikolojik-danisma","tag-egitim-basarisini-arttirmada-ailenin-rolu","tag-egitim-danismani","tag-gaziantep-psikolog","tag-ogrenci-kocu","tag-online-psikolog","tag-online-terapi","tag-psikolog","tag-psikolojik-destek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4667","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4667"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4667\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4668"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4667"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4667"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4667"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}