{"id":6117,"date":"2023-04-10T02:32:43","date_gmt":"2023-04-09T23:32:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okanbal.com\/?p=6117"},"modified":"2023-04-10T02:32:43","modified_gmt":"2023-04-09T23:32:43","slug":"cocuga-bir-pedagoga-gidecegini-nasil-aciklanir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/6117\/cocuga-bir-pedagoga-gidecegini-nasil-aciklanir\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011fa Bir Pedagoga Gidece\u011fini Nas\u0131l A\u00e7\u0131klan\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikoterapisi, terapist ve \u00e7ocuk, ergen ya da aile aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en terap\u00f6tik g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi ve etkile\u015fimi i\u00e7eren bir psikolojik tedavi bi\u00e7imidir. \u00c7ocuk\/Gen\u00e7 ve ailelerin problemlerini anlamalar\u0131na ve \u00e7\u00f6zmelerine, problemli davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmelerine ve hayatlar\u0131nda olumlu de\u011fi\u015fiklikler yapmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Psikoterapi s\u00fcrecinde, \u00e7ocuk ve gencin bireysel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na ve i\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fu duruma g\u00f6re Bili\u015fsel Davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 Terapi, Psikanalitik Terapi, Oyun Terapisi, Aile Terapisi gibi bir\u00e7ok terapi y\u00f6nteminden yararlan\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>Psikoterapi s\u00fcreci h\u0131zl\u0131 ilerleyen, sorunlar\u0131 bir anda \u00e7\u00f6zen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 de\u011fildir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, karma\u015f\u0131k ve zengin bir \u015fekilde ilerleyen, \u00e7ocuk ve ergenlerin problemlerini azaltan, onlara i\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fc kazand\u0131ran ve hayat kalitelerini, i\u015flevselliklerini artt\u0131ran uzun bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun yard\u0131m almas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine karar verildi\u011finde<\/strong> bunun \u00e7ocu\u011fa a\u00e7\u0131klanmas\u0131 gerekmektedir. \u00c7ocuk ve gencin i\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fu ya\u015f d\u00f6nemine g\u00f6re bu sorunun cevab\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fmektedir.&nbsp; Bu a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131l\u0131rken temel olarak bu noktalara dikkat edilmelidir:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"strelka\">\n<li>A\u00e7\u0131klamak i\u00e7in sakin bir zaman\u0131 bekleyin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizi k\u0131zd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde veya \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla bir tart\u0131\u015fma sonras\u0131nda pedagoga g\u00f6t\u00fcrece\u011finizi s\u00f6ylemeyin.<\/li>\n<li>Neden psikolo\u011fa gitmesi gerekti\u011fi konusunda d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve a\u00e7\u0131k olun. Sizi endi\u015felendiren durumu \u00e7ocu\u011funuza s\u00f6yleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u201cSon zamanlarda, arkada\u015flar\u0131nla sorunlar ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nday\u0131m. Bu konuda bir uzmandan yard\u0131m alman\u0131n iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.\u201d diye bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131labilir.<\/li>\n<li>Problem hakk\u0131nda kimden yard\u0131m al\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde aktar\u0131n.\u201d Bir doktora\/\u00f6\u011fretmene\/ablaya\/abiye gidece\u011fiz\u201d yerine bir \u201cuzman\u201d ya da \u201cpedagog\u201d yard\u0131m\u0131 alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n. Bu ki\u015fiyi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu durum hakk\u0131nda konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131 ve bu durumla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma konusunda ona yard\u0131m edecek biri olarak tan\u0131mlamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n<li>Gen\u00e7lerde;&nbsp; terapiye gitmenin onlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan kaynaklanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde durun ve terapide konu\u015fulanlar\u0131n terapist ve gen\u00e7 aras\u0131nda gizli tutulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza, pedagog ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn aileye olumlu bir katk\u0131s\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtin. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuk, problemli bir birey olarak ailede d\u0131\u015flanmam\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"quicklink2\">\u00c7ocu\u011fum ne zaman psikolojik deste\u011fe ihtiya\u00e7 duyar?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun aile, e\u011fitim ve sosyal hayat\u0131n\u0131 aksatan davran\u0131\u015f ve tutumlar\u0131 varsa hi\u00e7 vakit kaybetmeden uzmandan dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yard\u0131m\u0131 almal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Anne-babalar, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri sorunlu bir davran\u0131\u015f hakk\u0131nda uzmana dan\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce \u015fu sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 da de\u011ferlendirmelidir:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"strelka\">\n<li>Ne kadar s\u0131kl\u0131kla bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fumda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum? Her g\u00fcn? Haftada bir?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fum bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ne kadar \u015fiddetli ya\u015f\u0131yor? Fark\u0131nda m\u0131? Kontrol edebiliyor mu?<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fumun ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131 da b\u00f6yle davran\u0131yor mu?<\/li>\n<li>E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fumun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda yard\u0131m almazsam ileride ne olur?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00c7ocukluk ve ergenlik d\u00f6nemlerinde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenemeyen psikolojik sorunlar\u0131n ihmal edilmesi yeti\u015fkinlikte bir\u00e7ok problemin kayna\u011f\u0131 olabilmektedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikoterapisi, terapist ve \u00e7ocuk, ergen ya da aile aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en terap\u00f6tik g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi ve etkile\u015fimi i\u00e7eren bir psikolojik tedavi bi\u00e7imidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8991,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,28,240,119,91],"tags":[611,484,612,326,579,610,614],"class_list":["post-6117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-egitim-ogrenci-danismanligi","category-pdr-rehberlik-resmiyet","category-pedagog","category-psikoloji","category-psikolojik-danisma","tag-cocuk-ne-zaman-pedagog-gitmeli","tag-cocuk-pedagog","tag-cocuk-psikolojik-destek","tag-cocuk-psikolojisi","tag-gaziantep-cocuk-psikologu","tag-pedagog-gaziantep","tag-pedagog-nedir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6117"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6117\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ogrencikocuokanbal.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}